Wednesday, December 03, 2008

Happy Continuation Day, Nita


This evening, as swarms of black birds swooped in the rainy sky, in an excellent animal clinic on an awful strip-mall and strip-club lined highway, I held Nita in my arms as she left us. She was a cat that lived in more than a few homes on two continents, was lost in the frantic tumult of Barcelona traffic as a kitten for half a day, took no shit whatsoever, but adored a loving whacking of her ass. She was vocal and tough and sweet all at once and her presence never went uncelebrated. Her absence will go always mourned.

In the last months of her life she traveled in the cabin of a jumbo jet, enduring the stupid hands of Spanish security guards, shrill if kind US Customs Agents, and more than 15 hours smashed beneath a fat airline passenger, all without a breath of complaint. She dominated and tough-loved two big dumb dogs, evaded the cruel and ravenous raccoons of a new city, and took walks with Lili through the park as if she were a dog. When we first arrived she disappeared for 48 hours, provoking fears of the worst in us, only to appear in the kitchen as Lili wept and I scribbled missing Spanish cat signs, looking at us as if to say, "what's your problem? Feed me." Other than that span of time she brought us only endless joy, entertainment and tenderness. Tragically, her new found and cherished freedom was cut short by a car in the damnable slick and dark streets of Seattle.

There was a sweet kind of irony in it, holding on to her even as she was going. It was a peaceful event in the end and she whispered a farewell to me.

But I like very much something that Vietnamese Buddhist monk Thich Nhat Han says about and to someone dying:

"Happy Continuation Day."

Let's all hope that for the one and only indomitable Nita and know that she's continued into a bright place with her brother Gimlo, large insects and plenty of spanking!

8 comments:

Jefferson Rose said...

Amen, brother. Amen.

Anonymous said...

Thanks Eli,
I am happy that Nita, brave Nita, had you by her side when her time came. Even though I had been informed by Lili about her condition and recommended the best for her in view of the situation, I still hoped... for the impossible. This morning , when I opened my mobile, and just saw the subject line on your email, I started to cry. Even though it was Lili's and your cat now, I was there when she was born along with all her sibblings. It was me who allowed them in the house, became in between to save them from the ogor when he wanted to get them out, allowed the mummy cat to come in and continue to nurse her and Gimblosh, put up with the oger's nasty words about them,,,, for me it has also been a loss, not comparable to Lili's clearly. Lili has lost her living link with Barcelona, her cat friend in Seattle. Julie and I both went to your flat this morning to give her support and rememorated old stories with her, such as the time when she was pooing under a flaming barbecue in the middle of fireworks on San Juan nights, or when she jumped balconies and digged out the soil in the neighboors plants!
AS I have told Lili, the pet family, Skittles, Nita, Gimblosh... is getting reunited.... Old Mimo, the survivor, peeing, cat, still alive and strong (18 ysr) will be joining them soon. In the meantime, they are aronf, I feel them, and that reconforts me...


Love,

Ma

Julie said...

Beautiful words for Nitta. Thank you for being there with her...

She will be sorely missed, but I do find comfort in believing she is with all those we have loved and still do from our earthly existence.

Love,
Julie

Helena said...

Thank you, hermano.
Por estar allí con ella...

There's a new female cat in El Jardinet dels Gats. She's black, beautiful, and loves spanking.
I called her Nita. In her honour.

Dave said...

Ah, Nita. That lovely cat eased me through a moderate-to--debilitating panic attack on your Barcelona couch, hopping up on my lap with her ass in the air, looking back at me over her sleek shoulder as if to say "come now, friend, spank me, and this too will pass."

God Bless her.

Justin said...

She always kept me good company when I visited you and Lili--would sleep on my feet. She was friendly and nice, and easy to love.

Please pass on my condolences to L.

mzmasi said...

Sorry to hear about Nita. Nice to read such loving words about her. Tell Lili my heart is with her, E.

Jessica said...

thanks for letting all of us know a little bit more about her - from reading this and all the beautiful comments, i know her better, and sadly I never met her. Losing a cat or a dog is a hard, painful thing, an ache that comes up behind you for years to come and bites you, gently, on the shoulder. May you see her again, in your dreams and later on. Give Lili a big hug for me.